The level of honesty required in this kind of therapy is crucial and anything that threatens it, should be addressed. If we live with our parents, privacy might be a concern. In a more threatening situation, what if a domestic violence victim is trying to do this work? What if someone they live with sees it? The integrity and honesty of the writing will most likely be compromised if the fear of someone finding it is an issue.
This is common with younger cohorts, but anyone can have trouble sitting down to write. For students or younger clients, making writing fun is important. Providing them with really attractive-looking journals is one way to get them excited to write.
And get creative. Jeffrey offered one example as sidewalk chalk. You can still push yourself to write. Lyrics, poetry, screenwriting, or even drawing can be effective. Consistency is also key here. Rather than trying to fit into your busy schedule each day, write at the same time each day, everyday, until it develops into a habit. This kind of therapy, at its core, believes the individual is the expert.
And so, the main issue with having family members or loved ones help you tell your story, or help externalize your problems, is that they have their own perspective of why they believe you do what you do. Their narratives may have nothing to do with the truth of why you act a certain way. Secondly, when we introduce others, we may start to write and change our narrative for what they want, or what we think they look at us as.
If we want to keep the integrity of our writing to break down these narratives, one-on-one sessions with a therapist is the recommended approach. As mentioned in the webinar above, if you are having trouble writing about yourself at all, feel free to work with others, but keep in mind, that should remain a supplemental practice. While you can practice these methods at home, trained narrative therapists exist everywhere! Jeffrey Kidd also provides a 6-hour in-depth training to go further into Narrative Therapy.
This is a full 6-hour live and interactive training in-person or online where you will:. We use cookies to improve your experience on our site. To find out more, read our privacy policy and cookie policy.
By continuing to browse this site, you agree to our use of cookies. What is Narrative Therapy? Defining Narrative Therapy. Narrative Therapy Definition. Narrative therapy techniques: Retelling your story Externalizing the problem Deconstructing the issues Unique Outcomes Theory.
Who does narrative therapy help? What does that look like? Narrative Therapy Writing. The writing process. But most often, a good rule of thumb is as follows: 1. Narrative Therapy Exercises. Narrative therapy techniques to try. R etell your story Retelling your story is the broadest method.
We are fixed in the past version of ourselves. Inspiring Creativity from the Practice If we practice seeing our old situations in a new way, we naturally start thinking more creatively. Resilience from Narrative Therapy Additionally, Narrative therapy enhances resilience. Why Narrative Therapy? The mental and physical benefits. All these experiences have contributed to shaping a story about herself as a competent, caring and skilful therapist. When faced with the decision to apply for a new job in a field that is less familiar to her, Laura is more likely to apply or think about applying under the influence of this positive self-narrative.
I suspect that she would experience the challenges in her work with some confidence and might talk about her work in ways that describe it as enriching. The meanings that we give to these events occurring in a sequence across time do not occur in a vacuum. There is always a context in which the stories of our lives are formed. This context contributes to the interpretations and meanings that we give to events.
The context of gender, class, race, culture and sexual identity are powerful contributors to the plot of the stories by which we live. Her confidence in speaking out in work situations may have much to do with her history within the feminist movement and also the fact that as she is a white Australian professional, it is likely that people will listen to what she is saying. In these sorts of ways, the beliefs, ideas and practices of the culture in which we live play a large part in the meanings we make of our lives.
As I have tried to explain, narrative therapists think in terms of stories — dominant stories and alternative stories; dominant plots and alternative plots; events being linked together over time that have implications for past, present and future actions; stories that are powerfully shaping of lives. Narrative therapists are interested in joining with people to explore the stories they have about their lives and relationships, their effects, their meanings and the context in which they have been formed and authored.
Let us think about some of the stories that are brought into the context of therapy. Most commonly, when people decide to consult a therapist it is because they are experiencing a difficulty or problem in their lives. When meeting with a therapist, they will often begin by telling the therapist about many events in the life of the problem for which they are seeking help. Commonly they will also explain the meanings they have given to these events. The Craxton family sought my assistance when one of the members of the family, Sean, was caught stealing.
This particular meaning or dominant plot occurred through a gathering together of many other events in the past that fitted with this interpretation. To tell this particular story, certain events from the present and past were selected out and explained to fit with the meanings that his parents had arrived at. Early in their meetings with people, therapists often hear stories, like the one above, about the problem and the meanings that have been reached about them. Thin description allows little space for the complexities and contradictions of life.
It allows little space for people to articulate their own particular meanings of their actions and the context within which they occurred. It was generated by others as is often the case with thin descriptions and left little room for movement.
For all we know, the last thing Sean wanted may have been for his stealing to be given attention! Perhaps these actions had more to do with making a stand for belonging with peers, with acquiring something for his sister, with standing up to the bullying of others, or with establishing himself as a leader in a neighbourhood where leadership for a young man means leading break and enters robberies.
But sometimes people come to understand their own actions through thin descriptions. In whatever context thin descriptions are created, they often have significant consequences. Thin conclusions are often expressed as a truth about the person who is struggling with the problem and their identity. These thin conclusions, drawn from problem-saturated stories, disempower people as they are regularly based in terms of weaknesses, disabilities, dysfunctions or inadequacies.
Sometimes these thin conclusions obscure broader relations of power. They hide the tactics of power and control to which she has been subjected, as well as her significant acts of resistance. Once thin conclusions take hold, it becomes very easy for people to engage in gathering evidence to support these dominant problem-saturated stories. The influence of these problematic stories can then become bigger and bigger. As the problem story gets bigger and bigger it becomes more powerful and will affect future events.
Narrative therapists, when initially faced with seemingly overwhelming thin conclusions and problem stories, are interested in conversations that seek out alternative stories — not just any alternative stories, but stories that are identified by the person seeking counselling as stories by which they would like to live their lives.
The therapist is interested to seek out, and create in conversations, stories of identity that will assist people to break from the influence of the problems they are facing. Just as various thin descriptions and conclusions can support and sustain problems, alternative stories can reduce the influence of problems and create new possibilities for living. For Sean, for example, an exploration of the alternative stories of his life might create space for change.
These would not be stories of being an attention seeker or a problem child. Instead, they might consist of stories of determination throughout his history, or stories of how he overcame troubles in earlier times in his life, or ways in which he gives attention as well as seeks it. Or, alternative stories might be found in other realms entirely — realms of imaginary friends, histories of connectedness with his mother or father, or within special knowledges that Sean might possess through his relationship with his beloved pet dog Rusty.
In any of these territories of life, through therapeutic conversations, alternative stories might be unearthed that could assist in addressing the problems Sean is currently struggling with. The ways in which therapists and those who consult with them can co-author alternative stories will be described in following chapters.
With these ideas about stories informing their work, the key question for narrative therapists becomes: how can we assist people to break from thin conclusions and to re-author new and preferred stories for their lives and relationships? Narrative therapists are interested in working with people to bring forth and thicken stories that do not support or sustain problems. As people begin to inhabit and live out the alternative stories, the results are beyond solving problems. Within the new stories, people live out new self images, new possibilities for relationships and new futures.
To be freed from the influence of problematic stories, it is not enough to simply re-author an alternative story. If you imagine reading a novel, sometimes a story is richly described — the motives of the characters, their histories, and own understandings are finely articulated. The ways in which alternative stories are co-authored, how they are told and to whom, are all relevant considerations for narrative therapists.
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